Patient Responsibilities

I think that getting a second opinion is probably the most important thing you can do when you have been diagnosed. Because I did, I was able to learn so much more about the disease, my condition and my options. All physicians are different and approach patients differently. My first surgeon was great and told me the basics, but the second one was a research scientist and had all the latest statistics, treatments, and other information she shared with me. So different physicians can offer you different ideas, support and options.

The second opinion also serves to as a reinforcement of to processing the information. I say in my book that when you first hear the words, "You have cancer," your brain takes the next bus to Toledo. It is as if it shuts down, refusing to hear what has been said and therefore, you usually miss everything else that follows. During a second opinion, you are more stable and able to hear what is being said to you, allowing you to begin formulating a game plan.

And finally, it is, in my opinion, absolutely vital that you know for sure what you are dealing with. Different stages mean differnt things and information is power. I can’t think of a case when I wouldn’t; it’s always wise to seek a second – or even third or fourth – opinion. You want the right treatment, and the right diagnosis!

I know on two levels how important it is to get the right answer, first time around. On a professional level, 20 percent of cases we see come to us having been initially misdiagnosed, and in 60 percent of cases, patients were on the wrong treatment path.

That right there translates into a lot of unnecessary suffering on the part of patients and their family, not to mention the often-unnecessary financial burden for the patient, his employer and the health care system. It’s estimated that $312 billion is wasted each year on misdiagnosed cases.

On a more personal level, my brother Brad Falchuk (co-creater of “Glee”), was misdiagnosed two years ago. Had he not sought a second opinion, he would have been getting the entirely wrong diagnosis and surgery. That surgery could have paralyzed him, or worse. It’s scary to think what could happen without a second opinion.

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1. To take charge of their healthcare patients need to decide that their health is priority #1 and they chose to be in charge. This an important decision point, because the other actions follow this commitment. Surprisingly there are many patients who say they want to get better, but really don't because their illness in some way meets their needs.

2. The second step would be to look at health from the holistic view and examine all areas of your life and their impact on your health. For example, financial problems can add tremendous stress, an therefore can adversely affect your health. Relationships,jobs, lifestyle, even your leisure and self care - are all connected to your health and wellness.

3. The third step is to create a specific action plan for those areas that need improvement.

4. The fourth step is to get a "health buddy" to help with accountability and staying on track with your plan. Accountability is extremely important. Just think about all the New Years resolutions that have come and gone after a few months.

This is your health, and you committed to being in charge. Now you are ready for step 2.
Center for Advancing Health President and experienced patient Jessie Gruman says, "People need to realize that finding good health care and making the most of it relies mainly on their actions. We have to work at being informed about when to seek care and from whom and about what we have to do to make the most of the services, drugs and technologies that constitute our treatments."

If you'd like to know more about Jessie and her experiences as a patient, you can visit www.AfterShockbook.com.