Breast Cancer Abroad

This is a critical question. I found that the medical care and treatment were outstanding but that the "soft"side was not so much in place. I connected with 2 other women who had been diagnosed at a similar time and who were also treated in the same hospital. This was invaluable and we are still in contact and now try to ensure that our checks coincide.

To be absolutely honest though, a significant support network was online. I subscribed to two Breast Cancer sites, one UK and one US based. On one site I followed a thread of women who were going through chemotherapy at the same time and although we were at opposite sides of the planet our side effects brought us together. I was able to share highly personal details with a group of women, many of whom I did not know their name!

I also blogged throughout the experience (and still do). This was a great way of communicating what was happening to friends and family far away. However more than this, it enabled me to process everything I was going through. I also find that it has provided a detailed record and document of the experience. It was an important coping strategy.

There were distinct advantages of having my treatment overseas. I was able to continue working, for example. I had virtually no waiting time for treatments and had access to top medical care and facilities. As I mentioned earlier, the gap was on the support and "soft" side and I had to make more effort in this area to find the support I needed.

I have to say that during the whole treatment period I had the support (physical, emotional and practical) of my husband who was at my side throughout.

I think it was probably harder for my family than it was for me being overseas.